Childhood experiences of abandonment can echo loudly in adulthood. The silent vows we made to stay safe — “I must be the good one,” “I must never need too much” — can linger as hidden scripts in our hearts. As children we try to earn love by pleasing others, hide our feelings to avoid rejection, or tiptoe through life to prevent loss. Later, those same fears may drive us to over-give, fear intimacy, or feel ashamed when we draw boundaries.
Yet Scripture reminds us that we are never truly forsaken.
📖 "When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me." — Psalm 27:10 (NKJV).
Our God steps into the very places where human love failed and offers unwavering presence. He calls us out of self-protective patterns into the freedom of being His beloved.
Reflection & Gentle Steps Toward Healing
Notice the old vows. Invite the Holy Spirit to reveal hidden promises like “I must never upset anyone” or “I have to earn affection.”
Replace them with truth. Speak God’s Word over each lie: I am chosen, not forsaken. I am His child.
Practice safe connection. Begin with small, trustworthy relationships where you can share your heart and be met with grace.
Seek prayerful support. Christian counselling, inner-healing prayer, or a mature mentor can help you release the weight of the past.
May you sense His steady love today, stronger than every echo of loss.
💡Closing Prayer:
Lord Jesus, thank You that You never leave nor forsake me. Heal the places where abandonment’s voice still speaks. Break every silent vow that keeps me from receiving and giving love freely. Teach me to rest in Your faithful arms and to walk in relationships marked by trust, honour, and holy freedom.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Saturday, 27 September 2025
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