There’s a subtle ache that comes when you realise not everyone in your circle is actually in your corner. Some people are experts at the public clap yet carry a private competitiveness that chips away at peace. They smile with you but quietly hope for your stumble, just enough to feel ahead. This energy is sly, hiding in plain sight until you feel the absence of safety in their presence.

Pay attention to the fruit of their actions, not just the noise of their words. Notice who checks in when you are quiet, who speaks well of you when you’re not there, and who stands beside you when you have nothing left to give. Loyalty is rarely loud. Real love shows up in ways that presence alone cannot prove.

Prayer:

Lord, give me discernment to recognise the difference between those who only appear close and those who are truly for me. Help me guard my heart without becoming hard, and surround me with people who carry Your love in both word and deed. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

You are worthy of friends who protect your peace, guard your heart, and celebrate your wins without envy. Choose wisely, and keep walking with those whose presence feels like safety.