There’s a shadow that has followed me all my life — rejection.

It doesn’t knock politely. It lurks over my shoulder, waiting for an unguarded moment to whisper lies into my soul. Sometimes it strikes with the blunt force of a slammed door. Other times, it slides in subtly, convincing me that maybe I’m too much, too loud, too different.

I have learned this: rejection is not a verdict. It is a valley.

Every great leader — every prophet, every reformer, every soul who dared to obey God’s call — has walked through this valley before stepping into the fullness of their assignment.

Moses was rejected by his own people before leading them out of Egypt. David was left out of the lineup before being crowned king. Even Jesus was “despised and rejected by men” before becoming the cornerstone of our salvation.

Rejection will try to rewrite your name, to make you question your worth and muzzle your voice. It will tempt you to shrink back so you don’t risk the ache again.

Yet God’s call has never depended on the vote of the crowd.

You were not called to be popular. You were sent to lead.

The valley of rejection can become a refining fire — burning away the need for approval, clarifying your purpose, and deepening your dependence on the One who called you.

I am learning to stop asking rejection for permission to exist.

I will not let it define me. I will let it refine me.

Reflection:

• Where has rejection tried to rename you?🤔

• How can you speak God’s truth over that lie today?🤔

Prayer:

Lord, when rejection whispers its lies, remind me of Your truth. Anchor my worth in Your love, not in the applause of others. Refine me through the valley, and let me emerge steadfast, humble, and bold in my calling. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.