There is a quiet freedom that comes when we realise we are not called to defend every “no” or justify every boundary. In a world that often demands explanations, Jesus reminds us that our identity is anchored not in people’s approval, but in His unfailing love.

I used to twist myself into knots, trying to explain why I couldn’t meet expectations, why I needed distance, or why I chose a different path. Yet, no matter how carefully I spoke, some never understood. That’s when the Holy Spirit whispered: Peace begins when you stop begging to be understood.

The right people will not require explanations; they will recognise the truth by the fruit of your life. The wrong people won’t be persuaded, no matter how carefully you try. And that’s okay. What matters most is that God sees, God knows, and God affirms.

Like pottery mended with golden kintsugi, our lives don’t need to be justified, only offered back to Him as a testimony of His grace.

🙌 Prayer:

Lord, help me rest in the peace of being known by You alone. Free me from striving for human approval, and give me courage to live authentically in the truth of who You’ve made me to be. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.