There was a time when I felt the need to pour out long explanations, desperately trying to make others understand my heart. I would string together paragraphs, hoping that the weight of my words could bridge the gap between my soul and theirs. Yet, in the process, I drained myself.

Now, I have learned that the ones who truly care do not require essays to validate my feelings. The right people listen even when I speak in whispers. They see the meaning behind my silence, noticing the tender places I cannot always explain. With them, I am not required to beg for understanding, because love makes room for both my words and my quiet.

It has taken years to release the urge to over-explain, but freedom came in realising this: love that demands constant proof is not love at all. Care that requires endless paragraphs is not care but performance. Real love is safe. It holds space for my pauses, my silences, my trembling attempts at expression. It is found in the presence of those who meet me halfway, who choose to lean in rather than turn away.

This Scripture reminds me that listening is an act of love. Those who love us well will listen deeply, without rushing, without demanding explanation after explanation. They will notice the quiet parts of us and cherish them, even when words fail.

Today, I rest in the comfort of knowing that I do not have to force anyone to hear me. My worth is not measured by how many words I speak, but by the truth that I am fully seen and loved by God. He hears even the prayers I cannot utter, the sighs of my soul, and He calls me beloved.

🙏 Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank You for the safety of Your love, where I do not need to prove myself or explain endlessly to be understood. Help me rest in the assurance that You see the hidden places of my heart, and that those who are meant to walk with me will recognise both my words and my silences as valuable. Teach me to love others with that same quiet attentiveness. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.